Is Egg Donor Anonymity A Thing of the Past?

As growing numbers of babies born through the use of sperm and egg donation reach adulthood, a “donor conceived” movement, advocating for the right of donor-conceived people to know about their biological origins, has helped to make donor anonymity increasingly difficult to guarantee. Now, some U.S. states have passed laws that prioritize donor-conceived offspring’s right to know, a seismic shift in the legal landscape and a U.S. donor industry historically built on anonymity.

U.S. Egg Donor Industry Built on Tradition of Anonymity

U.S. egg donors traditionally have had an expectation of remaining anonymous, insulated from future contact by the offspring they conceive. Likewise, intended parents have found some comfort in remaining anonymous as well. But in the age of ancestry websites such as 23andMe, genetic disease screening and sibling registries, more and more oocyte (egg and sperm) banks and agencies are (rightly so) advising donors that their anonymity cannot be guaranteed.

 In the recent report, “What Is It Like to Be an Egg Donor? 5 Things You May Not Know,” IFLG assisted reproductive technology (ART) attorney Molly O’Brien addresses the “myth of donor anonymity.”

When I began working in the ART field, egg donors (and sperm donors) could safely expect to remain anonymous—and they preferred it that way. Breach-of-privacy concerns were limited to accidental breaches, such as leaving a private paper out for prying eyes to see or an accidentally mailed document.

The world has changed since then…. Potential egg donors should take into consideration that anonymity is quickly becoming a thing of the past before making the commitment to become an egg donor.

As the use of sperm donation, egg donation and embryo donation have become increasingly common over the past decades, the children conceived using that technology have grown to adulthood, many of them yearning for information about their genetic origins. Organizations such as We Are Donor Conceived, and the Donor Sibling Registry, founded in 2016 and 2000, respectively, by donor-conceived individuals, offer resources, information and connection for thousands of siblings each year.

Globally, laws governing egg donation and other forms of assisted reproduction technology vary widely from country to country. Some Western nations historically have banned or tightly restricted access to assisted production. In France, for example, in order to be legal, egg donation must be both anonymous and uncompensated, i.e. the egg donor cannot be paid for undergoing the procedure. Elsewhere, such as in Spain and South Africa, egg donors may be compensated but by law must be non-anonymous.

The ‘Wild West’ of U.S. Reproductive Law

In the United States, laws and regulations vary widely from state to state on issues such as how legal parentage is established and who may legally participate in surrogacy and under what conditions. Likewise, there is no federal law and few state laws specifically regulating egg donation.

Egg, sperm and embryo banks, along with other types of organ and tissue donations, are regulated by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA), which requires a review of donor medical record and screening for communicable diseases. While the FDA requires banks to preserve certain donor information for medical purposes, it does not weigh in on donor anonymity or the rights of donor-conceived children to identify their donors.

Although the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) monitors and provides guidelines for best practices in the egg and sperm donor industry, adherence is voluntary.

Secretive History of Egg and Sperm Donation

While “artificial insemination” has been used for centuries in animal husbandry, and donated sperm has been used in human reproduction since the 1800s, egg donation is a relatively new technology. Although sperm donation and artificial insemination were in wide use in the U.S. by the 1950s and ’60s, the first successful U.S. pregnancy and birth using an egg donor did not occur until February 1984, following Australia in 1983, as reported in The New York Times.

From the beginning, infertility and sperm donation carried a stigma, and the sperm donor and IVF industries evolved from a tradition of secrecy, concealment, and controversy, as we reported recently in “Is Sperm Donor Anonymity A Thing of the Past?

Conventional wisdom held that donor anonymity was the best way to protect family reputation, and that concealment of genetic origins was in the best interest of the child.

Those attitudes began changing in the 1970s and 1980s. An adoption identity movement emerged in the U.S. and internationally in support of adopted children seeking information on their biological origins for health purposes. As fertility treatments for men improved, U.S. sperm banks found new markets in lesbians and single women, many of whom wanted to be open and transparent about their children’s genetic heritage.

New California Egg Donor Law Ends Anonymity

Several Western nations, including Austria, U.K., Sweden and New Zealand, have laws banning egg donor and sperm donor anonymity

In 2011, Washington became the first U.S. state to enact legislation limiting egg donor anonymity. The law guarantees that children who are conceived using gametes from a Washington egg bank or matching program will, upon turning 18, have access to their donors’ medical histories and full names—unless the donor has specifically opted out of being identified.

In October 2019, California legislators followed Washington’s path, with a law, effective in January 2020, that requires oocyte (egg and sperm) banks and donor programs to collect and retain a donor’s full name, date of birth and address, as well as any other contact information provided. The new law also requires the donor program to obtain a declaration stating whether the donor does or does not authorize disclosure of donor information to any resulting children when they reach age 18 and request the information.

In the absence of a declaration of donor anonymity—if an egg donor fails to complete a declaration or if the donor program can’t come up with the paperwork—the donor program must release donor information to the child upon request at age 18.

Even if the egg donor has a declaration of anonymity on file, the adult donor-conceived child still has one additional recourse. Once the child reaches age 18, the new California law requires the egg bank or donor program, upon request, to contact and offer the egg donor one more chance to disclose her identity.

How Will End of Donor Anonymity Impact Supply of Donor Eggs?

As the trend continues to increase transparency about egg and sperm donor identity, fertility experts and advocates are watching to see how loss of donor anonymity will affect the pool of available donors.

Surveys of potential sperm donors about loss of anonymity show no clear answer. Some studies have shown a drop in sperm donation in countries that had passed laws banning donor anonymity. A 2016 study from Harvard Law School found that 29 percent of potential sperm donors would not donate if their names were put on a registry.

The impact of loss of anonymity on egg donation is even less clear. While compensation for sperm donors is relatively low, perhaps $100 per specimen, egg donors may be paid thousands of dollars per cycle. Thus an egg donor might be less concerned about the tradeoff between financial compensation and loss of anonymity. In both the sperm bank and egg bank industries, “known” donors, those who are willing to accept future contact with donor-conceived offspring, typically are paid more than anonymous donors.

One South African study of 150 egg donors between September 2017 and August 2018 found that, when donors were asked whether they would remain anonymous or not if the law allowed them to choose, 81 of 150, or 54 percent, said they would disclose their identities; 34 percent, said they would remain anonymous.

In the same study, 95 percent of the egg donors responding said their primary motivation in donating was to help infertile women; only 15 percent, said they were primarily motivated by financial gain.

Intended Parents May Prefer Anonymous Donor

While many intended parents are increasingly open to full transparency about their children’s conception via assisted reproduction, some, for social or cultural reasons, prefer that the genetic details remain secret.

Some fear that a known donor will surface, uninvited, in their and their child’s lives, demanding a parental role or causing other disruptions. Others prefer to keep their reproductive history private from others, fearing familial disapproval or social stigma.

Some intended parents worry that the existence of a genetic “parent” would harm their own parental relationship with their child. As assisted reproductive technology attorney Amira Hasenbush told AbovetheLaw.com in 2019, intended parents tend to worry more about the loss of donor anonymity than the donor does—even though the law in California and in most states clearly states that the intended parents, and not the egg or sperm donor, are the legal parents of the child.

Intended parents also could be impacted if new limits on donor anonymity and/or the loss of privacy inherent in our Internet-connected world has a chilling effect on the pool of available donors and the supply of donated eggs—potentially making creating a family via assisted reproductive technology more expensive.

Donor-Conceived Children’s Right to Know

The U.S. egg donor and sperm donor industries historically have prioritized the rights of the donor to remain anonymous over the rights of donor-conceived children to know about their genetic origins.

But kids grow up.

As IFLG fertility lawyer Molly O’Brien wrote recently:

While your donor agreement will state the intentions or rights of each party to pursue future contact or maintain anonymity, keep in mind that the child who will be born is not a party to your agreement. It is nearly impossible to control the behavior of a person who is not even born yet.

The world’s first successful birth by in vitro fertilization occurred in 1973; the first using donated eggs in 1983. As the children conceived via these new technologies began to reach adulthood, some sought information about their genetic origins, only to be frustrated by sperm and egg banks’ rigid donor anonymity constraints.

In 2000, according to The New York Times, a donor-conceived child, with his mother, founded the Donor Sibling Registry, following in the footsteps of Single Mothers by Choice, a registry started by a single sperm donor recipient in the 1990s. Today, the Donor Sibling Registry, which requires that users be 18 or have parental permission, matches some 1,000 half-siblings or other genetic relatives each year.

Today many experts believe children may be adversely affected if they are denied information about their genetic origins. According to ASRM’s fact sheet for intended parents, “while ultimately the choice of the recipient parent, disclosure to donor-conceived persons of the use of donor gametes or embryos in their conception is strongly encouraged.”

According to ASRM, disclosure builds trust among family members, fosters honest between parents and children, allows parents and children to be forthcoming with their physicians, and avoids the chance that the secret might be forced out during a medical emergency.

In a 2018 report, the ASRM Ethics Committee acknowledges the complexity of juggling the interests of donor-conceived individuals, donors and recipient parents:

Because of each person’s fundamental interest in knowing their genetic heritage and the importance of their ability to make informed healthcare decisions in the future, the Ethics Committee supports disclosure about the fact of their donor conception to offspring. It also supports the gathering and storage of medical and genetic history information that can be provided to offspring if they request. It recognizes, however, that decisions about disclosure are highly personal and it is the recipient parents’ choice whether to disclose the fact of donor conception to their offspring.

Increasingly, advocacy groups such as We Are Donor Conceived are pushing the U.S. fertility industry to give equal weight to the needs and rights of donor-conceived offspring as to those of recipient parents and donors. In its 2020 survey of 481 donor-conceived individuals in 15 different countries, 81 percent of respondents support abolishing anonymous donation agreements, and 67 percent believe the donor’s identity should be available to the donor-conceived person from birth.

One 2020 survey respondent, now 46, wrote to fertility industry professionals:

“First do no harm.” Intended parents may be your “customers”, but what you are creating are not “successful pregnancies” or even “babies,” these are human beings who will grow up, be affected by their experiences, and often go on to have their own children. You are affecting outcomes for generations to come, and there is a significant responsibility that comes with that.

We at IFLG believe that, ultimately, the benefits of transparency and openness for families and donor-conceived children will outweigh any potential chilling effect on egg donation or increased costs. As technology improves and opportunities for family formation expand, the well-being of the child and the family will continue to be our guiding principle.


Richard Vaughn

Attorney Rich Vaughn is founder and principal of International Fertility Law Group, one of the world’s largest and best-known law firms focused exclusively on assisted reproductive technology, or ART, including in vitro fertilization (IVF), surrogacy, sperm donation or egg donation. Rich is co-author of the book “Developing A Successful Assisted Reproduction Technology Law Practice,” American Bar Association Publishing, 2017.

Peiya Wang
Paralegal (律师助理)

Peiya Wang joined IFLG as a paralegal in 2015, where she manages surrogacy, egg donation and parental establishment cases and provides translation services for many of IFLG’s international clients. Peiya moved to the United States in 2012 to attend Northeastern University in Boston, Massachusetts, receiving a Master of Science degree in Global Studies and International Affairs in 2014. Peiya moved to Los Angeles in 2015, received her paralegal certification from UCLA Extension, and obtained her second Master of Science degree in Legal Studies from Loyola Law School. Peiya relocated back to her hometown, Beijing, China in 2019 and works from IFLG’s Beijing office. When away from the office, Peiya is a dragon boat paddler and a ballroom dancer, where she favors Rumbas and Cha-chas. She is fluent in Mandarin and English.

Luis Sosa

Luis R. Sosa joined IFLG as a paralegal in 2016, where he enjoys pursuing his passion for family and reproductive law. While working toward his bachelor’s degree at Florida International University which he received in 2013, Luis worked as a paralegal and legal assistant for family law litigation firms in Miami and Washington, D.C. As a paralegal and case manager for IFLG, Luis, who is bilingual in English and Spanish, manages surrogacy, egg donation and other reproductive law cases. Luis has worked for IFLG in both Los Angeles as well as San Francisco, and is currently based in Dallas, Texas. In addition to spending time with husband Randy and dog Marty, Luis enjoys being outdoors and appreciating the arts.

Toni Hughes

After receiving her B.S. in Business Management, Toni joined IFLG to pursue her dream of working in the legal field. As a Paralegal with over 10 years of experience in the assisted reproduction technology field, Toni is our Managing Paralegal, responsible for training and managing our paralegal staff. From drafting legal documents to assisting our clients with post-birth matters, Toni embraces the challenge of learning something new in this field each day. Besides spending time with her son, Jordan, Toni enjoys exploring new things, cooking, spending time with family and friends, and serving as a Youth Advisor for “Next Generation.”


Kim has over 30 years of experience in the legal field and has worked exclusively in surrogacy and assisted reproduction law since 1999. Kim is a senior case manager responsible for managing parental establishment cases and interacting with IFLG’s Of Counsel attorneys across the country. With three children of her own, Kim understands the importance of family and finds working in this area of law a rewarding experience.

Rich Vaughn

Attorney Rich Vaughn combined his personal passion as a father of twin boys born via assisted reproductive technology (ART) with more than 20 years of experience in business and technology law to build International Fertility Law Group. Today IFLG is one of the most successful and best-known law firms in the world focused exclusively on fertility law, helping thousands of intended parents through empathetic listening, compassionate guidance, and unmatched legal expertise. As an advocate for reproductive freedom, Rich also contributes his knowledge and time to improving the understanding and practice of ART law, most recently as a founder of and speaker at the first Cambridge University International Surrogacy Symposium held in June 2019, as immediate past chair of the American Bar Association ART Committee, and as a popular presenter to law schools, faculty and advocacy organizations all over the world.

Elizabeth Tamayo

Elizabeth received her Bachelors of Science degree in Criminal Justice from California State University of Los Angeles. Shortly after graduating, she continued her education at the University of California, Los Angeles where she obtained her Paralegal certificate. Elizabeth is fluent in Spanish and has been in the legal field since 2009. She is excited to be a part of the IFLG Team helping families realize their dreams.

Sunny Chien

Sunny joined IFLG as a paralegal in 2017, where she manages surrogacy, egg donation and parental establishment cases for many of IFLG’s international clients. She holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Philosophy from California State University of Los Angeles, where she graduated cum laude. Sunny is bilingual in English and Mandarin and has extensive experience as a legal assistant and paralegal at Los Angeles-area law firms. She is excited to be part of the IFLG team. In her spare time, Sunny enjoys spending time with her family and their dog, going to the beach, cooking, and being outdoors.

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Molly O'Brien

Fertility law attorney Molly O’Brien began working in the field of assisted reproduction technology (ART) in 2005, at an egg donation agency and a surrogacy agency where she became familiar with all aspects of in-vitro fertilization, egg donation and the financial aspects of surrogacy. Since becoming an attorney in 2011, Molly has drafted and negotiated surrogacy, egg donation, sperm donation embryo donation agreements for hundreds of her clients all over the world.

Phoebe Sadler

Fertility law attorney Phoebe Sadler has a background in family law and has been practicing exclusively in the area of assisted reproduction technology (ART) law since 2018.

Rubina Aslanyan

Rubina has an extensive background in the legal field as a paralegal in Family Law and has worked in surrogacy and assisted reproduction law since 2012. Her area of focus is in managing and assisting clients with surrogacy, egg donation, and parental establishment cases for many of IFLG’s domestic and international clients. During her spare time, Rubina enjoys spending time with her family and dog Bella, traveling and cooking.

Alexander Espinoza
Legal Assistant

Alexander joined IFLG as a legal assistant in 2019, where he manages surrogacy, egg donation and parental establishment cases. Alex is bilingual in English and Spanish and has been in the legal field for 23 years. Alex is excited to join the IFLG team and pursuing his will to help others in the reproductive law process. In his spare time he loves spending time with his family and friends, being outdoors, road trips, loves music and dancing.

Cara Stecker
Senior Paralegal

After receiving her paralegal certificate in 2005, Cara began working in assisted reproductive law. During the fifteen years Cara has worked in this field, she has gained a wide range of experience and knowledge that she uses to help better assist clients and those involved in the assisted reproductive journey. Cara’s primary roles involve managing parental establishment matters and coordination with IFLG’s Of Counsel attorney network, drafting contracts and parental establishment court documents and providing support to other team members. Cara finds great joy in being a small part of a team of caring people who help others achieve their dream of having a family. In her spare time, Cara enjoys spending time with her husband and three children, watching her children play the sports they love, and she enjoys, running, cycling and exploring the outdoors in the sun.

Stephanie Kimble

Stephanie received her BS in History and Political Thought from Concordia University Irvine in 2015 and her Paralegal Certificate from University of San Diego later that same year. She has been working as a Paralegal since 2016 in Family and Reproductive Law. She is excited to be part of International Fertility Law Group working on managing Surrogacy, Egg donation and Parental Establishment Cases.

Trish Pittman
Assistant Financial Coordinator

With more than 20 years of experience in the field of accounting, Trish joined the IFLG team in 2019 as Assistant Financial Coordinator. Her client-facing focus at IFLG is to assist with all client trust accounting. Trish is the mother of two daughters and enjoys spending time teaching and learning new things from them. In her free time, she loves long walks in the park and reading suspense and mystery novels.

Katie Deaquino
Senior Paralegal

Katie is a Senior Paralegal with IFLG and has dedicated over sixteen years to the areas of surrogacy and reproductive law. She received her Paralegal Certificate from Coastline Community College and has worked with some of the top law firms in the assisted reproduction community. Katie is also a commissioned Notary Public. With IFLG, Katie manages Surrogacy, Egg Donation, and Parental Establishment cases and provides support to other IFLG team members. Katie truly enjoys helping others build their families through assisted reproduction and is thankful she has had the rewarding experience of assisting IFLG clients. Katie often spends her free time with her Husband, four young children and her bulldog “Bella”.

Elsa Jimenez
Legal Assistant

Elsa joined IFLG as a Legal Assistant in 2019, bringing more than 35 years of experience working in the legal profession (concentrating in tort and litigation matters). At IFLG she assists surrogates with their surrogacy and parental matters. The oldest of five siblings, born and raised in East Los Angeles to Mexican immigrant parents, Elsa loves “seeing the beauty of families forming” through assisted reproductive technology. She and her husband Carlos have four children and one grandson. Elsa enjoys jazz and ’80s music, being outdoors in nature, collecting teacups and tea pots, and spending time with her close-knit family.